I always tell people if they really want to have a better understanding of where the Spirit has gifted them, they'll learn more from asking the people closest to them than they will from a Spiritual gifts assessment.
As for me, I've had more than a few friends and Spiritual gift assessments tell me that hospitality is my jam. And I can tell that it is. Hospitality is what makes me come alive. Unfortunately, it's not talked about much in the church except in the context of bridal teas and new recipes and basically anything to do with homemaking skills.
I've always felt talk of hospitality is akin to taking an Emily Post course where you should get the cleanness of your house, the decor, the food, etc, all perfect. And then the whole Spiritual aspect is tied into everything, so if things aren't perfect, it kind of makes you not as good of a Christian woman.